Are you focusing on how your life looks or how your life FEELS?
The choices you make every day can really effect how you feel inside and how you feel about yourself. Are you making choices based on what society expects your life to look like or based on your own expectations? You may be making choices based on what others' expect of you or to even keep up with others.
However, you are individual and so is your life which means you choose a lifestyle which is right for you. The only way to do this is to check what is going on on the inside at any given moment.
How do you feel in certain situations?
What or who do you need to let go of?
What habits do you need to work to change?
You always have your answers inside. Are you listening?